Danielle wrote:Just checking in with you all...I am still very much happily married to my British sweetie pie...all is calm...hope you all are staying clear of CH's and I hope 2017 will be a great year for all of us.
Just logged on and saw your greeting. Happy belated holidays to all. Still single, which is fine for me; glad to hear you are still happily married and enjoying life.
Keeping busy with work. A lot of OT. Have been trying to transfer with my organization for awhile, but so far, no luck. Spring is coming, so looking forward to that and new beginnings with nice weather and cook outs and gatherings around the fire pit.
I tried going on a couple of dates, but the older I get, the less I care, quite honestly. Between whatever baggage they may have and my reluctance to go beyond a handshake prevents any further engagement. I'm not complaining at all. I've grown quite accustomed to being alone, and actually prefer it. When you're with a CH, you're alone anyway. The difference is, things are way less stressful when they're not in your life. Daily life is enough by itself. Adding a CH to the mix is insanity. It's like coming out of a fog. You don't realize how bad it was until you make the break and how well they concealed it in hindsight. The bad times eclipse all that was good at one time. NC with relatives is still in place and avoid anyone associated when possible. I do still go to the same person who does my hair, but CH topic remains off limits by a mutual unspoken understanding.
Someday, I may even consider dipping my toe in the dating pool again, but not counting on it. lol.